Tuesday, March 11, 2008

get some girl power

i don't understand women like Dina McGreevey, Silda Spitzer, Hillary Clinton, or Carmela Soprano.



(by the way i have no idea why they are dressed alike:  could it be the uniform of contrition after adultery?)

ok. so your man has just humiliated you in front of the whole world.  he has shown absolutely no regard for your feelings or physical preservation or that of your kids. how do you stand by his side at the press conference knowing that you have a tortured look on your face?  knowing that the whole world is looking at you while he talks?  how do you hold his hand as you walk off the stage?

this is my question:  why stand there in the first place?  is it force of habit from a lifetime of being there for the "big" moments?  do otherwise strong women turn to putty in these awful times and allow themselves to be pushed onstage by political handlers—or yanked up there by desperate foolish husbands?  what does a woman have to gain by letting the whole world watch what would be hard enough to bear even behind a locked bathroom door with the shower on full blast?
 

i get the whole love thing.  you'd do anything for the person you love, stand by them in times of trouble -- try your best to preserve the family.  i understand.  but at some point, doesn't your own self-preservation instinct have to kick in? isn't there a point where it's clear that your husband doesn't have the respect and love for you or your family bond? 

so why do these women go before the cameras then?  paralysis?  denial?  maybe deep down, they are just as power hungry and morally bankrupt as their creepy, self absorbed, narcissistic, power hungry husbands.  i hope i am wrong.  

now here is some GIRL POWER:

Spc. Monica Lin Brown Earns a Silver Star

The nation's third-highest medal for valor.  

Under gunfire and mortar fire, she helped move wounded comrades to safety, at times shielding them with her own body.

Brown age 19, of Lake Jackson, Texas, is scheduled to receive the Silver Star later this month. She was part of a four-vehicle convoy patrolling near Jani Kheil in the eastern province of Paktia on April 25, 2007, when a bomb struck one of the Humvees.

"We stopped the convoy. I opened up my door and grabbed my aid bag," Brown said.

She started running toward the burning vehicle as insurgents opened fire. All five wounded soldiers had scrambled out.

"I assessed the patients to see how bad they were. We tried to move them to a safer location because we were still receiving incoming fire," Brown said.


She helped move them out of harm's way, eventually some 500 yards, and then treated their wounds and saw them off to safety.  She saved their lives.

The military said Brown's "bravery, unselfish actions and medical aid rendered under fire saved the lives of her comrades and represents the finest traditions of heroism in combat."

Spc. Brown serves in the 4th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team. 

Spc. Monica Lin Brown from Lake Jackson Texas of the 82nd Airborne stands guard at a forwarded operating base in Khost, Afghanistan, Saturday, March 8, 2008. (AP Photo/Rafiq Maqbool)

Well done Specialist Brown.  Thank you for your service.  An "All American Hero" with Girl Power too.

Posted by zoey at 11:43:12 | Permanent Link | Comments (10) |
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1 - WOW what a contrast in stories! WTG Spc. Brown! You ARE a hero and an example to all of us. ZOEY: could the wives who fall into the politician trap been simply trying to be brave when their entire world is falling apart? I mean it is almost unreal at what machines they seem to be. I would be cutting "Mr Happy" off if you know what I mean.
Carole in California (Comment this)

Written by: Anonymous at 2008/03/11 - 16:11:36
2 - I think these wives like the lifestyle and are willing to turn a blind eye to their husbands' indiscretions. They get use to the fame and fortune and fine houses and accolades. When the bum is exposed, their life is shattered. I think they stand there because they are in shock and then when they get the guy home, reality sets in. Its pretty sad actually.
JR (Comment this)

Written by: Anonymous at 2008/03/11 - 17:17:48
3 - I think the women are just as ambitious as their husbands. They like the high powered jobs and what it gives them. If they want to continue to "stand by their man" then fine. But they sure don't think much of themselves.
Jinxy (Comment this)

Written by: Jinxy at 2008/03/11 - 18:12:53
4 - Maybe these women love their husbands even though they are married to real pigs. I think however she is showing a bad example to her teen daughters; that women are to be disrespected and doormats. Spc. Brown however is a woman above all women. I wonder if she is married? wink, wink. (Comment this)

Written by: Anonymous at 2008/03/12 - 13:49:47
5 - Zoey I hope you are not a Spice Girls fan (note: the title of this post). I could no longer be infatuated with you and your great mind.
JR (Comment this)

Written by: Anonymous at 2008/03/12 - 14:05:14
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6 - hi JR thanks for visiting the blog. heck no i am not a spice girl fan however i do like the sentiment of "girl power" to describe a strong and capable woman! so there.... :P (Comment this)

Written by: zoey at 2008/03/13 - 10:28:53
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7 - Great blog Zoey! Thanks for the comment on mine!!

Pastor Mike (Comment this)

Written by: Mike Stover at 2008/03/14 - 09:09:42
8 - I think these women are as power hungry as their men. I think they sacrificed a healthy happy family a long time ago. (Comment this)

Written by: Anonymous at 2008/03/16 - 08:45:07
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9 - Zoey, I'm infatuated with your mind, too. Personally, I'm Kitty Spice. (Comment this)

Written by: Mango at 2008/03/19 - 18:29:16
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10 - Mango, does that make me smarty spice? blahhhh. (Comment this)

Written by: zoey at 2008/03/19 - 18:32:56
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